Sex in a down economy

Is the down economy effecting our libidos? Certainly we are more afraid, nervous, concerned, worried than at any time since 911. But are we more horny? Or less? Are we having more sex or less? Are we embarking on sexual adventures as an escape from seemingly endless bad news? Or is the concern over paying the bills a big fat buzz kill?

For me personally, I've been having LOTS more sex since the economy went south. But that's mostly because I've been laid off and suddenly have LOTS of free time on my hands. When I'm not job hunting I'm on the lifestyle and swing sites posting and chatting and flirting. I can have a furious fuckfest every night if I want. And that has certainly been my goal.

Yes, I am concerned about finding a new job. Scared to death that I'll end up a homeless bag lady. But I also have an amazing sense of freedom. Or maybe it's free fall? And it is intoxicating. My libido (nothing to sneeze at in the first place) has gone through the roof.

Last week I had a nice young man (35) over for a playdate. He was rather shy and a little geeky and totally adorable. High school teacher - the one all the girls had a crush on. He was so quiet I thought we weren't clicking until we got back to my place. As soon as the door closed he pushed me against the wall, grabbed my wrists and pinned them over my head.

I don't know what it is, but having my hands held down just makes me insane with lust. I spread my feet apart so he could grind his erection into my pussy. We had a hot, wet standing fuck right there in the hallway before heading into the bedroom for round two.

But soon afterwards he was up, putting on his clothes. "I'm really sorry, but I've got to get up at 6am," he said. I, on the other hand, was ready to stay up til dawn screwing his brains out. Being unemployed and having no place to be at the crack of dawn, I was free to do so.

But not my sweet teacher. After he was fully dressed he DID hop back on the bed for some apologetic farewell necking. He didn't say the obvious: "Some of us have jobs."After he left (at about midnight) I was twice as horny as before. =Sigh= I've either got to find a job, or more playmates.